Let's face it, connecting with kids can be hard. But it's do-able! One suggestion: don't try and reinvent the wheel! There are easier ways to find ways to get kids to open up and find out a little bit more about what they're about. One game that can be a great way to break down walls is called, "Beat the Parents". Kids and parents challenge each other to see who knows who better. How fun is that? Let's not forget another classic for those with a tough stomach: the game, Would you Rather...? A word of advice - go through the cards first and pull out the ones that may be less appropriate, depending on the age of your child. One of my absolute favorite for older kids is the book: Talk With Your KIds: Conversations About Ethics-- Honesty, Friendship, Sensitivity, Fairness, Individuality, and 103 Other Things That Really Matter. This is a great little book of scenarios to discuss with your middle schooler or high school student. Plus, its easy to find on Amazon. Hang in there. If you are interested in more ways to connect with your child, just give me a call!